The Bar Exam Is a Rocky Road, But That’s the Path to Mastery
- Tommy Sangchompuphen
- 3 hours ago
- 2 min read
Today, June 2, is National Rocky Road Day—a celebration of the classic ice cream that embraces the messy mix: chocolate, marshmallows, and nuts all jammed together in one delicious scoop.
And honestly, I can’t think of a better metaphor for bar prep.
The bar exam journey isn’t smooth. It’s not supposed to be. It’s a rocky road by design.
Rocky: Because It’s Hard
Bar prep is intense. There will be days you feel confident and in control, and others where everything—MBE questions, essay writing, even motivation—feels like a disaster. That’s normal.
➡️ The path to mastery always involves some bumps.
➡️ No one coasts their way to a passing score.
➡️ If you're struggling right now, that’s not a sign that you’re failing—it's a sign that you're learning.
Road: Because You’re Moving Forward
Even when it doesn’t feel like it, you’re still progressing. One practice question, one essay, one review session at a time—you are building the knowledge, skills, and stamina needed for exam day.
➡️ Progress isn’t always visible day to day.
➡️ But trust that the work adds up, just like ingredients in a recipe.
➡️ Some flavors (topics) might be bitter, others unfamiliar. But together, they create the bar-prep version of Rocky Road: complex, messy, and ultimately satisfying.
The Mix Is What Makes It
Rocky Road works because of the contrast—soft and crunchy, sweet and bitter. And bar prep is the same:
✅ Frustration and breakthrough
✅ Burnout and bounce back
✅ Confusion and clarity
Each part of the process is doing something. You don’t grow despite the hard parts—you grow because of them.
Final Scoop: Don’t Wish the Road Were Easier—Just Keep Walking It
If you’re in the thick of it right now, pause and appreciate the rocky road you’re on. You are not alone. Every licensed attorney has walked it. And every bump, every tough quiz, every late-night study session is part of the mix.
You’re not off track. You’re on the road.
Now treat yourself to a scoop of Rocky Road today—and keep going.